Ubi Caritas

Thursday, May 25, 2006

Hair, sun, Texas et all

So here I am, hair carefully pinned up with the ends tucked under the pins (am trying to grow my hair out and if the ends get damaged it will have to be trimmed), wondering what possessed me to agree to stay in Texas during the summer.
It is May. In northern Illinois it is in the sixties. In Texas, it is well over 90.
There is something inherently wrong with a climate in which it is "normal" to be over 90 degrees in May.
I have submitted to the indignity of wearing a very, VERY wide-brimmed hat when I am outside. I have slathered myself in SPF 60 sunscreen (man, does that stuff stink!). I have even put large amounts of extra conditioner on the ends of my hair before I put it up.
Over 100 ounces of water per day? Check. Staying inside as much as possible during the hottest times? Check.
I strongly suspect that I look utterly ridiculous. However, I also must admit that I am not (however much I may wish to be) a Texas woman.
Texas women are tall, slender, tanned and, for the most part, blonde. I am 5-3, have an Irish peasant build (think broad shoulders and hips), can't tan to save my life (burn to a crisp if exposed to much sun), AND I have medium-brown hair wurly hair.
Finally, Texas women do not have to wear wide-brimmed hats to avoid horrendous sunburn.
Oh well. At least the hat is a wonderful shade of periwinkle. I think that I shall go put on some big, dangly earrings.
No wonder people think I look earth-mothery. Darn it, I am not a hippie!

Blessed Are The Spin Doctors

Courtesy of http://www.godspy.com/issues/Opus-Dei-and-The-Da-Vinci-Code-by-Austen-Iveriegh.cfm:

BLESSED ARE THE SPIN DOCTORS

How Opus Dei took on The Da Vinci Code's hype machine - and won.

Advertising for The Da Vinci Code in Tokyo

In the run-up to the release of the film of The Da Vinci Code on May 19th the communications director for the UK branch of Opus Dei, a bundle of nervous energy even in calmer times, can hardly contain himself.

“This is going to be the most exciting month of my life,” Jack Valero grins, as he passes me a bundle of some of the astonishing recent coverage: pages and pages from Time magazine, Le Figaro, the New York Times, Eve—upbeat coverage getting inside the “real” Opus Dei, contrasted with the murderous conspirators in the Dan Brown megaseller. The articles explain the difference between numeraries (celibate members) and supernumeraries (normally married); why they joined this Catholic organization of 86,000 worldwide dedicated to finding God in their daily work, and how, when you meet them, they are not sinister albino monks but prayerful insurance clerks of conservative temper.

Opus Dei has stayed positive, patient and polite.
You can’t buy this sort of publicity. But should you ever find yourself cast as the central villains in a film based on a novel that has sold 40 million copies and is about to be one of the most widely watched films in history, you can, at least, enable it. When that novel takes as its premise the “revelation” that for centuries the Catholic Church has covered up the “truth” that Jesus Christ fathered a line of children through Mary Magdalene—and, even more astonishingly, when people actually believe this stuff—why not step out into the spotlight and let people see you as you really are? Opus Dei calls this “turning lemon into lemonade” and in the weeks before the film is released it is producing it in industrial quantities.

In New York, for example, Opus Dei offers the media the chance to meet Silas—the murderer in The Da Vinci Code—who turns out to be a Nigerian stockbroker in Brooklyn rejoicing in the name Silas Agbim. Thanks to Dan Brown, he regularly appears on all the major networks, cheerfully discussing his life and vocation as a supernumerary. “If we agreed to all the media requests to meet the ‘real’ Silas,” says Brian Finnerty of Opus Dei in New York, “he would have to give up his stock-exchange job and do this full time.”

Watching Valero and his colleagues rush between TV studios, it is hard to remember that this was once the Catholic Church’s reputedly most furtive, defensive organization, obsessed with secrecy and taking an almost perverse pride in the media’s hostility. Once the whipping boy of progressive Catholics, long unfairly associated with shadowy Spanish politics and Vatican intrigues, the face of Opus Dei is now Valero’s: cheery, energetic, transparent, as open as its doors. You want to meet a supernumerary musician with twins in Notting Hill? No problem. Discuss mortification with a celibate numerary? Sure!

“It’s like living in a goldfish bowl,” he says laughing. “People know everything about me: what time I get up, how much I pray, that I’m celibate, that I was born in Barcelona. There’s nothing private about us any more.”

Opus Dei has even been happy to discuss the cilice—the spiky leg strap that some of its core members wear for an hour or so a day. Valero describes it as “a traditional practice among monks and nuns which, like contemplative prayer and the divine office, can now be done by lay people too.”

“You guys are so nice,” they said. “That Dan Brown—he’s a liar. We don’t trust nothing in that book now. You should sue the sucker.”
The architect of what has become known as “Operation Transparency” is Opus Dei’s canny global communications director, Professor Juan Manuel Mora. An expert in communications at Opus Dei’s Santa Croce University, near the Piazza Navona in Rome, he has in the space of 10 years completely overturned the organization’s shadowy subculture.

It would be nice to report that Mora is a stooped, cowled, puffy-eyed octogenarian monk with nervous tics and scars from overzealous mortification. In fact “Juanma,” as everybody calls him, is, like most leading Opus Dei members, a genial middle-aged layman in a suit: passionate and charming.

“We are not taking this lying down,” he tells me over lunch at the university. He has had no more luck than anyone else in securing a preview of the film, but the trailer—which includes a flagellation scene of ferocious sadomasochistic violence—gives a glimpse of what is to come. It is enough that the film be faithful to the novel, says Mora, to take the assault on the reputation of Opus Dei and the Catholic Church to a whole new level.

“With the novel, it was a problem of information. We could respond with books, websites and so on, countering falsehoods with truth. But with a film, you have a problem of imagination. People will associate Opus Dei with violence, the Catholic Church with deception. That’s not something you can respond to with a book,” Juanma, who is from Spain, says.

When it learned that Sony had bought the rights to the book, Opus Dei said nothing publicly but made contact with the corporation. Polite letters were sent asking that the name of Opus Dei not be used, and pointing out that because the novel claimed to be based on historical truth, many people were likely not to be able to distinguish fact from fiction. Sony replied with vague letters giving no information about the movie but insisting they had no desire to offend anyone. Mora asked for an interview with Amy Pascal, head of Sony’s motion pictures division, but was ignored.

You hear this sentiment often on the lips of Christians: of course, if we were Muslims they would never dare...
Then in December the film’s director Ron Howard told Newsweek that the movie would closely follow the book, and implied that Opus Dei was in it. Mora swung into action. Opus Dei would now say publicly, in a series of carefully timed open letters to Sony, what the corporation had not allowed it to put to them in private.

The news this generated would generate public discussion about respect for faith and freedom of speech, and create yet more opportunities to meet the “real” Opus Dei, so that by the time the film opened the public would be better able to distinguish myth from fact.

In February, against the background of the row over the cartoons of the prophet Muhammad, Opus Dei called on Sony to make changes to the film “in these days in which everyone has noted the painful consequences of intolerance.” By making the changes, Sony would demonstrate that freedom of expression is compatible with respect for beliefs while also offering “a service to the cause of dialogue among cultures.”

In the same tone of pained regret and elaborate politeness, Opus Dei in Tokyo wrote to Sony’s shareholders and directors in April, appealing to Japanese corporate virtue and asking for a disclaimer in the film that would make clear that it was fiction. A disclaimer, the letter said, “would be a sign of respect towards the figure of Jesus Christ, the history of the Church, and the religious beliefs of viewers.”

Sony has been rattled enough to hire PR companies specializing in “reputation management.” Although it has not agreed to the disclaimer, the corporation has continually stressed—unlike Brown—that it is a work of fiction. The movie is “a thriller, not a religious tract,” according to a Sony spokesman, Jim Kennedy. But belying that statement is a website Sony has created “to educate people” about theological issues raised by the film. They include essays and some basic information about the Bible, noting where the book “suggests” conclusions that differ from mainstream Christian belief—thus placing the risible “theories” of the novel on a par with 2,000 years of theology.

But Opus Dei has stayed positive, patient and polite. The word “attack” is never used. Sony’s intentions are never presumed. There is no ping-pong counterresponse to the corporation’s statements. There is barely indignation, let alone anger, in the letters and statements; no calls for boycotts or protests or threats to sue. There is none of the arrogance and defensiveness typical of religious groups deploring offensive books or films.

“Sony is King Kong,” Mora says. “I want to be cast as the blonde girl..."
Contrast this approach with the speech given in Rome recently by Msgr. Angelo Amato, the number two at the Vatican’s Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith. He called on Catholics to boycott the film and organize protests. If “such lies and errors had been directed at the Koran or the Holocaust, they would have justly provoked a world uprising,” Amato said. “Instead, if they are directed against the Church and Christians, they remain unpunished.”

You hear this sentiment often on the lips of Christians: of course, if we were Muslims they would never dare… Not only does this cheer on violence, but it fails to recognize that the anger of the indignant victim quickly moves sympathy away from the victim—as the popular abhorrence of the Muslim protests showed.

This is what Mora has grasped. “Sony is King Kong,” he says. “I want to be cast as the blonde girl. If I’m the policeman who fires on King Kong, then sympathy will shift from the blonde girl to the beast.”

The brilliance of Opus Dei’s strategy is that it realizes the bind that Christians in the contemporary West are in. Muslims and Jews deserve respect for their beliefs because they are minorities, while Christians are seen—in spite of all the facts to the contrary—as a hegemonic body which it is therefore legitimate to denigrate. The presupposition of The Da Vinci Code is that the Church is powerful, secretive, misogynistic and violent, acting through history like a big, bad corporation. Ironically, this prejudice has been bolstered by secularization: the less contact people have with churches and Christians, the more inclined they are to believe damaging nonsense about them.

The novel may have its qualities as a page-turner. But only that combination of credulity and prejudice in Western culture can explain why The Da Vinci Code has become the biggest-selling book after the Bible. That is why the real victim here is the Church. How can the Church contest a best-selling calumny which purports to be fact—or protect its good name against a reputation-smashing Hollywood film?

The answer is given by Opus Dei. The Church’s best response is to switch public sympathy to where the facts demand it be directed. It can do this only by inviting people to come in and see the truth for themselves. If it tries to play the victim’s power game—angry, defensive, proud, placard waving, violent—sympathy will switch back from the blonde to the beast.

“If we agreed to all the media requests to meet the ‘real’ Silas he would have to give up his stock-exchange job and do this full time.”
That is why Mora’s strategy is paying dividends. Before The Da Vinci Code the peak of interest in its US website was 200,000 in 2002—the year of the canonization of the founder, Josemaría Escrivá. Last year it was 2.5 million—on top of a rash of documentaries, news slots and magazine profiles. A number of Opus Dei’s newest members say they first heard of the organization through The Da Vinci Code.

Opus Dei’s strategy has not stopped the film, and it won’t stop millions watching it and believing it. But turning lemons into lemonade has meant, at least, that millions more will know that it is nonsense—and unfair on Christians because of Dan Brown’s claim to a basis in fact. And in some there will have been the kind of conversion which a group of American tourists on a “Da Vinci Code pilgrimage” underwent last year. Seeing them gawping outside Netherhall House, Opus Dei’s student residence in north London, Valero invited them in for tea, introduced them to his numerary colleagues, and sat them down to his PowerPoint slides. At the end of the visit the tourists were incensed. “You guys are so nice,” they said. “That Dan Brown—he’s a liar. We don’t trust nothing in that book now. You should sue the sucker.”

Tempting, but that would be to play the power game. And anyway, they’re having too much fun.

“It’s going to be amaaaazing,” beams Valero. “Then it’ll die down, and we’ll be happy to be the best-known group in the Catholic Church.”

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May 16, 2006

AUSTEN IVEREIGH is the director for public affairs of England’s Archbishop of Westminster and coordinator of the Catholic Church in England and Wales’ Da Vinci Code Response Group. He stresses that he is not a member of Opus Dei.

This article originally appeared in "The Spectator" (London) and is republished with permission of the author and the Da Vince Code Response Group. @copyright 2006, Austen Ivereigh. All rights reserved.


In the opinion of UC, these actions are infinitely more effective than placard-waving, protesting and/or boycotting Sony. Combine this with seeing a movie that isn't the DVC this week, and you've got yourself a master plan for turning, as it was so eloquently put, lemons into lemonade. Bwahahahaha! (for those who don't know, that is an evil Catholic cackle)

Monday, May 22, 2006

Step Three

I'm in Al-Anon; long story there. In any case, for those of you who are not familiar with Al-Anon or AA (yes, there IS a difference; Al-Anon is a support group for families and friends of alcoholics while AA is Alcoholics Anonymous and is a support group for --you guessed it--alcoholics) Step Three is "Turned our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him."
I've had a much harder time with that step than I had with Steps One and Two. Admitting I was powerless over alcohol/the effects of alcohol on others was something I had done kind of unconsciously; I had to think about it and make sure that there was no part of me that was saying "if I was just x (insert prettier, thinner, more helpful, nicer, other adjective here) then Mom wouldn't drink and Dad would get a job." Of course, there were a few shreds of that but once I confronted them head-on they went away. As far as coming to believe that a Power greater than myself could restore me to sanity, I knew somehow that there was sanity at the end of the road, and I also knew that there was no way in heck for me to achieve it alone. I just had to have the faith to say that, and I was willing to.
However, Step Three is a more active step. I had to turn myself over to God and allow Him to do with me as He sees fit. To my mind, I could take care of myself far better than anyone else (up to and including God) could, and there was no freaking way I was going to turn myself over to someone who I had always pictured as judge, jury and executioner.
My sponsor kept telling me to redefine my idea of God. I did that by writing down all the things I thought God was and, more necessarily, what He wasn't. At the end of that, I kind of liked my idea of God, but I couldn't believe in it. The idea of a wrathful God who didn't care much about what we did so long as we went through certain motions was firmly ensconced, and didn't seem to be going anywhere.
I learned this week that I was going to have to move. Now, I am in Texas, which is about a thousand miles away from my family. I am renting a small house with two other girls; it is owned by the school I went to this past year. I am not going there next year. I work, but I don't make enough to pay the $450-$500 or so of rent that I'd need to pay for a reasonably safe apartment, leaving aside utility bills. In addition to all this, I would need someplace with at least a washer, if not a dryer; I am allergic to the dyes/perfumes in fabric softener and scented detergent, and that stuff is impossible to not get in one's clothes if you use a public laundromat. That's leaving aside the migraines I get from the overwhelming fumes in such a place. Obviously, stuff can hang dry in a pinch, but you CAN'T wash everything by hand.
My folks are simply not going to come up with financial help. They are both trapped in a very sad disease (alcoholism); they are doing the best they can for now, but that best isn't enough to help me financially.
On Friday night, I realized that there was NOTHING I could do about this until Monday. I worked the weekend, but I had Monday off. So, I planned that I would spend much of Monday trying to find a room mate and apartment, but for the weekend I would give the whole situation to God to do as He wanted. So, I prayed something along the lines of, "God, I can't do anything about this now, and it is really worrying me. Take it, please. I'll deal with it Monday, but worrying about it now will only upset me. It's yours; do with it as You will." I left it at that. That simple prayer was extremely hard for me; in the back of my mind I was thinking that I would solve something by worrying about it, even though I KNEW I wouldn't. Insanity, huh? ;)
Anyhow, I didn't think about it at all on Saturday except to ask God to take it again. Sunday morning, I did the same thing. I happened to mention the rental situation to a friend at church yesterday. God must have inspired me to tell her, cause I wasn't planning on doing so. Anyhow, she stopped by my work later on that day to ask me if I would move in with her; she and her fiance didn't want her to live by herself or me to live by myself; we could split rent and utilities, which would make things MUCH easier on both of us financially.
I never even thought that something like that would happen, and it just fell into my hands.
I am walking on air. Letting go and letting God really does work!! Step Three was suddenly very, very easy; if He could accomplish this, surely He could do much better than I have been doing!
So, God, here is my will and my life. Take them, and do with them whatever You want!

Monday, May 01, 2006

Never Forget

United 93

First of all, to my readers (all three of them, LOL), I have not dropped off the face of the earth. I would encourage anyone who would be critical of my lack of contact to go to college full time while working 30+ hours/week. Did I mention my B average? ;) (gets off her defensive soapbox)
Anyhow, regarding United 93: See it.
I am not, as a rule, a person who cries terribly easily. I didn't cry on 9-11. Of course, some of my family-based issues are responsible for that, as well as my not crying at all for a couple of years. Many long stories there, which I will probably not go into on this blog.
I saw United 93 last night, and I bawled my eyes out.
Anyone who thinks that Islam is a "religion of peace," that we shouldn't be over in Afghanistan or Iraq and that we should allow Iran to continue their nuclear enrichment program should see this movie.
Anyone who thinks that America had this coming because we stand by Israel should see this movie.
Anyone who thinks that the American spirit is something to be mocked, snubbed or laughed at should see this movie.
And, finally, anyone who thinks that it is a good idea to ignore the fact that 9-11 HAPPENED because it is hard or painful should see this movie.
This movie has not come out "too soon." As Dr. Laura said today (and she was crying over the air while reading a letter about it), you can't ignore a suspicious lump because it is "too soon." If that lump is cancer, it will eventually kill you whether or not you pay attention to it. You can't ignore the fact that these Muslims hated us so much that they killed three thousand innocent civilians. It happened, and I hope and pray that we as a country never, ever forget.
Every high schooler, every college student, every teacher, professor, citizen, and soldier should see this movie. It happened. Our glossing over of the facts will not make them go away.
God bless America, and may He always bless us with the kind of men and women who would not go quietly into the night, but were willing to fight back with their flatware, fire extinguishers and bare hands to keep these monsters from killing hundreds more innocent civilians.